(New Music Post) Love Song of The Day – “When I think of You” by Janet Jackson

This is my favorite music video from Janet Jackson and to this day one of my biggest inspirations for visuals for my music! I absolutely love everything about it! Hope your day feels as magical as this song and video! Enjoy.

Lyrics

Ooh baby, anytime my world gets crazy
All I have to do, to calm it
Is just think of you’Cause when I think of you, baby
Nothin’ else seems to matter
‘Cause when I think of you, baby
All I think about is our loveI just get more attached to you when
You hold me in your arms, and squeeze me
And you leave me making me blue’Cause when I think of you, baby
Nothin’ else seems to matter
‘Cause when I think of you, baby
All I think about is our loveSo in love
(So in love)
Ooh
(So in love)
With you
(So in love)
Baby
(So in love)
Ooh
(So in love)
Hee
(So in love)
With you
(So in love)
(So in love)When I think of you
When I think of you
When I think of you
When I think of you

Bass
I’m so in love
I just think of you
If you’re not around
Oh
When I think of you

(So in love)
Ooh
(So in love)
So in love
(So in love)
With you
(So in love)
Baby you
(So in love)
Ooh
(So in love)
So in love
(So in love)
With you
(So in love)
Break.

(Ooh, ah, ooh, ah, cha, ooh, ah, ooh, ah, chaow!)

Ah!
Hahahaha!
Feels so good
When I think of you
Yeah-e-yeah

(New Music Post) Love Song of The Day – “I Still Love You” by 702

This is such an underrated song! It’s a true gem from a girl group that I loved and it might possibly be one of my fav songs from them. Enjoy!

Lyrics
See everybody needs someone by their side
And I can’t go on without you another night
Since companionships been gone
My life has been so slow without you, you
See it don’t take a rocket scientist to know I love you
And it don’t take a rocket scientist to know I need you
See if you believe that you and me
Can change the world some day
Then you believe me when I say[Chorus:]
I still love you
I still love you
I decided I still love you
I still love you
I decided[Verse 2:]
So what do you think
Lets get back together, lets get back together
It’s nothing it could hurt, it could only get better
Think of what it lacks feel like
You and I didn’t turn our nice into forever
See, see it don’t take a rocket scientist to know I love you
And it don’t take a rocket scientist to know I need you
See if you believe that you and me
Can change the world some day
Then you believe me when I say[Chorus:]
I still love you
I still love you
I decided I still love you
I still love you
I still love you
I still love you
I decided I still love you
I still love you
I decided

[Verse 3:]
Never to not be so happy and sure of myself
Baby life without you is so dark, so dark, so dark
Now I know it will never be me loving someone else
This precious love your my shining star
I remember when we first fell in love
I was too young to know what it was
I couldn’t address what made melt
But quick to tell you how it felt
That love is so real and it still is

[Chorus:]
I still love you
I still love you
I decided I still love you
I still love you
I still love you
I still love you
I decided I still love you
I still love you

[Bridge:]
Just think of the things we planned to do, me and you
Life changing the face of those and that we once knew
So when it’s the sun the shine the oceans are blue
And that we can laugh and cry and that through

 

(New Music Post) Love Song of The Day – “Put it in A Love Song” by Alicia Keys & Beyonce

I LOVE this song! It’s such a great uptempo ladies love song and I truly wish they came out with a video for it because the few images that I saw online were beautiful, maybe one day someone will leak a rough cut or something. For now I’ll just make up my own video in my head lol. Enjoy!

Lyrics

[Alicia]
Hey yo B
[Beyonce]
What up A
[Alicia]
What we want?
[Beyonce]
Want them to say

[Chorus]
Say you love me, Say you love me
Then put it in a love song (Put it in a love song)
Say you need me, Say you need me
Then write it in a letter for me (Oh oh oh)
Say you want me, Say you want me
Then text me on the cell phone (Text me on my cell phone)
Say you love me, Say you love me
Then put me in a love song (Oh)

[Alicia]
If you say you want me, yeah,
You say you want me
If you do the right thing, we can be together
I’m not easy, yeah, you gotta work for it
I’m the real thing, and baby gotta please me

All that talkin’, boy, you better walk it
All that frontin’ that’s not how you do it
If you really need me like you say you need me
Baby better show me, baby, better come and say

[Chorus]
Say you love me, Say you love me
Then put it in a love song (Put it in a love song)
Say you need me, Say you need me
Then write it in a letter for me (Oh oh oh)
Say you want me, Say you want me
Then text me on the cell phone (Text me on my cell phone)
Say you love me, Say you love me
Then put me in a love song (Oh)

[Beyonce]
What you gonna do when somebody convinces me
To believe that he can do it better
Sending me gifts and showing me the romance
All this, this, and that, can you do better?

All I’m saying: love is what I’m looking for
If you wanna keep me, baby gotta love me more
If you really want me, like you say you want me
If you really need me, baby better come and say

[Chorus]
Say you love me, Say you love me
Then put it in a love song (Put it in a love song)
Say you need me, Say you need me
Then write it in a letter for me (Oh oh oh)
Say you want me, Say you want me
Then text me on the cell phone (Text me on my cell phone)
Say you love me, Say you love me
Then put me in a love song (Oh)

[Alicia]
Gotta work it baby, work it out
If you want me baby, Work it out
If you need me baby, Work it out
Gotta work it out, Gotta Work it out

[Beyonce]
If you love me baby, Work it out
Gotta work it baby, Work it out
If you want me baby, Work it out
Gotta work it out, Gotta work it out

[Alicia]
If you want my love and all my time
Part of my plans and part of my mind
[Beyonce]
All of the things that you wanna do
But make sure your love for me’s true to you
[Alicia]
Oh, If you show me; make me believe
[Beyonce]
So many possibilities
[Alicia]
Oh, We can look to infinity
[Alicia & Beyonce]
If you wanna be with me Ohhhhhhh

[Chorus]
Say you love me, Say you love me
Then put it in a love song (Put it in a love song)
Say you need me, Say you need me
Then write it in a letter for me (Oh oh oh)
Say you want me, Say you want me
Then text me on the cell phone (Text me on my cell phone)
Say you love me, Say you love me
Then put me in a love song (Oh)

[Alicia]

1, 2, 3, 4!!!

[Alicia]
Gotta work it baby, work it out
If you want me baby, Work it out
If you need me baby, Work it out
Gotta work it out, Work it out
[Beyonce]
If you love me baby, Work it out
Gotta work it baby, Work it out
If you want me baby, Work it out
Gotta work it out, Gotta work it out

 

 

(New Music Post) Love Song of the Day – “What You Won’t Do For Love” by Bobby Caldwell

It’s the month of love and I’m excited about it!

February is a good time to celebrate a lot of things, Black History , Women’s Empowerment and most importantly LOVE . Since I’m a music head I’m celebrating the month of love with music because some of the best songs are love songs! Today I’m posting a classic from Bobby Caldwell, “What You Won’t Do For Love”, enjoy!

 

Lyrics

I guess you wonder where I’ve been
I searched to find a love within
I came back to let you know
Got a thing for you and I can’t let go

My friends wonder what is wrong with me
Well I’m in a daze from your love, you see
I came back to let you know
Got a thing for you and I can’t let go

Some people go around the world for love
But they may never find what they dream of
What you won’t do, do for love
You’ve tried everything but you don’t give up
In my world only you makes me do
For love what I would not do

But then I only want the best it’s true
They can’t believe the things I do for you
What you won’t do, do for love
You’ve tried everything but you don’t give up
In my world, only you makes me do
For love what I would not do
Makes me do for love what I would not do

(New Post) Song of the Day – “You don’t know my name” by Alicia Keys #tgif

This song is dedicated to everyone who has a crush right now and needs to work up the courage to talk to him or her! Good luck and Happy Friday!

(New Post) Song of the day – “Be Your Girl” by @TeedraMoses #tgif

I’m working on a new album right now and most of my musical inspiration has been coming from the good ol’ late 90’s early 2000’s R&B and hip hop era.

Beautiful melodies and music that made you naturally want to groove! I love that time and the music that came with it because it was feel good and had a sense of positivity!

In my research/inspiration mode I get to listen to some of my favorite singers like Ms. Teedra Moses! She’s the baddest! I went to one of her shows in LA a few years ago and the place was packed with nothing but strong, intelligent women who were all in conversations about how much they loved her while waiting for her to hit the stage, the vibe in the room was great! When she finally came out she was the epitome of class and what an actual diva-veteran-star should look and sound like, I was blown away! She probably did an hour set and didn’t take a single sip of water and her voice sounded better and more powerful then on her recordings, it was some of the best singing I’ve ever heard! So in honor of my love for solid r&b and great voices, my Friday Jam is “Be Your Girl” – By Teedra Moses! Enjoy and Happy Friday! xo

(New Video Post) What is your creative outlet?

What is your creative outlet? Last year I was in a terrible place and feeling very lost in my creative life. One day I had a really strong urge to paint, I felt like I needed to do something to feel creative again. Painting really helped me to feel creative again, to relax and to just start to enjoy being an artist and not worry about it! I think it’s very important to have a creative outlet and take the pressure off. What is yours?

 

 

(New video post) Self-Motivation &Mentality #selflovesaturday

Happy  Self love Saturday!

I wanted to chat with you guys quickly about a subject I’ve had to discuss a few times this week and that’s being self- motivated and having the right mentality.

My beliefs are the right mentality and the ability to self motivate go hand in hand! You’ve got to have both and you’ve got to work them like a muscle! Strengthen your mentality and learn to motivate yourself to want to live better, do better and be better!

Tweet me some of your self love tips! @missandrealewis 

(New Video Post) Q&A session with A.Lewy!

Thanks to everyone who sent in their questions, I really love making these videos because I feel like I’m having an actual convo with some of you! I’ll be doing more of these from time to time but you can always tweet me or comment on instagram or facebook and I try to answer everyone! Hope you’re all having a great thursday!

Dealing with Betrayal…Am I able to get over it?

Of lately the word “betrayal” has been floating around in my head, I know that might sound really weird but that’s how my brain works. The idea was first sparked from watching the last episode of Scandal (which if you haven’t watched you REALLY should). In that episode one of the characters is having a very hard time dealing with betrayal and even though the person that has betrayed him has apologized and is trying  to make it better he just can’t get past it. Something about that moment struck a big chord with me and I couldn’t stop thinking about it. The more I let the word bounce around in my head the more and more sad I became. This week I’ve been feeling a bit like an emotional wreck and I can’t understand why so what have decided to do? Come to my blog and talk about it of course.

I have a few people in my life who I associate with the word “betrayal”. First I want to talk about just the word alone though, the definition says “to be false or disloyal” but the interesting thing is that we all have different levels of what we consider “betrayal” or being “disloyal” and that usually is where the problem lies. How my actions effects each person in my life is completely different which is why it is very easy to not understand why or how you’ve hurt someone or how they’ve hurt you. The people who have betrayed me if they were to be asked what they think they’ve done or if anything at all, their answer more than likely wouldn’t be the same as mine. But the thing I’m struggling with is how to get over the feeling of betrayal or do you ever?

When a relationship of any kind goes through a traumatic experience and there’s hurt and loss of trust, pain and weariness which ultimately leads to one or both parties feeling betrayed, what can you do to mend that feeling for yourself? I have a very hard time being fake, people think because I’m an actress I can just plaster on a smile and give hugs anytime of the day but that’s not true. If I’m uncomfortable and if I don’t feel safe there’s no faking it. I can’t hide how I feel and it will show in everything I do. I’m that person who’s acting really quiet all of a sudden and I need to leave early, that type of uncomfortable. 

But I’ve been asking myself, why do I still have that feeling of betrayal? Why can’t I shake it? I think it’s because I stopped feeling safe. I think that’s what the simple definition of “betrayal” is, the loss of safety. Your secrets, your truths, your jokes, your ideas, your heart, your love, your vulnerability no longer feels safe in the arms of this person. Even when you try to mend the wounds, try to turn a new page and start a new chapter you can’t because you’re different. You’re eyes are open in a way that isn’t good for the relationship, they’re open wider but your walls are higher the lock on the door is tighter and you don’t want to change it.

I’m struggling with the feeling of betrayal because I feel betrayed by people I loved and felt safe with and now I don’t. Will I get over it? Only time will tell but I think thats the only “cure” for betrayal; time. Taking time away, moving on and letting go of the feelings that still hurt you.  So tell me, have you dealt with betrayal? Did you get over it? How?