(New Video Post) What is Your Mantra? #SelfLoveSaturday

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Happy Self Love Saturday! 

Today’s video is inspired by Elizabeth Gilbert, the author of “Eat Pray Love”. I recently watched an interview with her where she spoke about the importance of having a Positive Mantra. Your  Mantra is a statement or slogan repeated frequently. Most of us don’t realize it but we already have a built in Mantra replaying inside of our head and these words greatly effect how our life plays out.  A positive Mantra is incredibly important for how you feel, and how your day goes because what you think you become! So with that I’m asking you guys, what is the slogan going through your head and is it helping or hurting you? Check out my video below on why you should have a positive Mantra. 

(New Video Post) Challenge Yourself Daily #SelfLoveSaturday

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Today’s video is inspired by Oprah’s “Super Soul Sunday”, a show that I watch every week and I absolutely love it! This show has become apart of my weekly Sunday relaxation and education! There is so much that can you can learn from each of Oprah’s guests on how to truly make the best of your life and that’s what I find so inspiring about the show.

Watching this show reminds me of the importance of seeking constant growth for your soul. Between Super Soul Sunday and my Self Love journey I have learned how important it is to challenge yourself on a regular basis. There should never be a chance for you to be content with where you are, you should always be seeking more, doing and searching for more and working to truly live to your ultimate potential. Nothing good happens in comfort zones so we shouldn’t be comfortable with staying in one. My self love journey has been a moving train of growth in every area of my life and I’m truly grateful for that because if I didn’t start my self love journey I would not have gained the insight to see why the constant challenge is important. Check out my video below on the importance of Challenging Yourself!

Happy Self Love Saturday.

(New Video Post) How To Gain Confidence #SelfLoveSaturday

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Hey guys? How are you doing? Today I want to focus on a question that I get every week and that’s “How can I gain confidence?” I’m always a bit stumped on how to answer this question because I don’t think there is a simple and quick answer that I can give to someone on how to gain confidence. Confidence for me has been a long journey in self discovery, patience and persistence. Confidence is very similar to Happiness, it’s an inside job and only you have control over it.

I treat my confidence like a muscle that needs to be worked and developed on a regular basis and I think it’s very important to see confidence in that way. I’ve never been able to rely on outside factors to help me build my confidence because the world is a cold and fickle place LOL and I mean that in  the nicest way, but I’ve grown up in the entertainment industry and for every person that loves you, there’s someone around the corner who thinks you suck! So I’ve had to learn to find confidence with in myself and I’ve worked very hard to keep it! Along the way though I have learned a few tricks to help develop and keep confidence, a few of the tips  I have mentioned before on the blog, but check out my video below on How To Gain Confidence and let me know what you have done to gain confidence.

(New Video Post) Having A Positive Perspective #SelfLoveSaturday

Happy Self Love Saturday!

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Today I want to talk about Having A Positive Perspective in life. Having a positive perspective has been a big part of my Self Love Journey and has helped me a lot to grow and mature. I’ve had to learn to see the silver lining in life, and to realize that there is no bad situation, it’s all in my hands how I let something effect me and I have the power to remain positive, present and unfazed. When you are positive in everything you do it helps you to stay focused, solve problems quickly and be happier and we all want to be happy! So I’m putting it out to you guys, how positive is your perspective? Check out my video below.

Happy Self Love Saturday 

(New Video Post) Dealing with Haters #SelfLoveSaturday

Happy Self Love Saturday!

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Once a week I get a message asking my advice on how to deal with family or close friends who are hating and not supportive of someones goals and ambitions. These messages break my heart because there’s nothing worse than confiding in someone about your dreams and they shoot it down! Or being around people who don’t want to see you grow.

Today’s video I do my best to give you a few tips from what I have done in the past when dealing with the haters. First things first, you have to cut any unsupportive friends or at least adjust your relationship with them so that their negativity doesn’t influence you on a regular basis. When it comes to your family, it’s not as easy to distance yourself from them so I say, don’t tell them about your goals just show em and prove em wrong!

We can’t expect everyone to be on board with our plans and they don’t have to be but you have to prepare yourself for being on a solo mission and being your only source of motivation when the people around you aren’t supportive. Understand their hate has nothing to do with you, but rather their own fears and failures that they are reflecting on to you. Ignore their doubts, and keep your eyes focused on the prize! Check out my video below and let me know, how have you dealt with the haters in your life?

(New Post) Taking Control of My Body – #FitnessJourney

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My fitness journey has been very similar to my hair journey. I’ve tried it all and I’ve been in denial, I’ve thought my hair was completely different to what it is and I’ve also wished my hair was completely different to what it is. It’s been a long lesson in patience and acceptance that has ended in health and awesomeness! Now I’m finally doing the same with my body and taking full control instead of letting my body control me!

As you guys may know, I’m big on healthy eating and juicing and changing my diet over the past couple years has been a huge help for my skin and hair and maintaining a certain weight for my height. But when it comes to actually being in shape and happy with my body this has been a big struggle for me. It’s easy for me to lose and gain weight, a simple week of working out and I’m five pounds down or a week of “treating myself” and I’m ten pounds up! This constant flip flop is not only annoying but it leaves me feeling helpless and out of control and I’m over it! So this month I decided to FINALLY take control over my body and accept it for what it is and make the absolute best of it for the first time in my life!

For the past month I’ve been working out 6 days a week, and 3 days of the week with a trainer to learn how to properly do weight training. In the past year I’ve met a ton of badass chicks with amazing bodies who all told me that weight training is what got them there and with a ton of research I’ve truly become a believer that weight training and clean eating is all you need to get the body of your dreams .

A lot of women believe that lifting heavy weights is going to make them bulk up and look like a man but I want to burst all of the bubbles now and let you know that is simply not true. We don’t have testosterone or the bodies of a man and even the female body builders that you see have to bust their butts to get to that shape, so you don’t have to worry if that’s not the look that you want. But what lifting heavy weights will do is to help you shape and tone and give you a full body work out which is what we need! On top of that if we eat properly by making sure to have lean protein (turkey, chicken, fish etc), complex carbs (sweet potatoes etc) and healthy fats (avocados etc) in our diet and of course lots of fruits and vegetables we will definitely see positive results and be on the right track! A friend and fitness inspiration for me, told me to think of food as “fuel for my body and not just something I’m doing for pleasure” which has helped to put a lot into perspective for me and change the way I look at “treating myself”.

But like I mentioned before, it’s fairly easy for me to get into “basic good shape” but my new goal is to make it past my comfort zone stage and truly change my body into what I want and be happy instead of just satisfied with it. I’m in the beginning of my new fitness journey but I’m really excited and inspired by it and wanted to share it with you guys, I’ll keep you guys posted on my progress and I’m gonna do a new creative photo shoot once I reach my goal that I’m really excited about! Woop! And let me know, how do you feel about your body right now? Are you on a fitness journey and do you feel like you’ve taken control of your body? If you guys need support, I’m your girl! #TeamFitness #TakingControl.

(New Video Post) “Always Bet On Yourself” #SelfLove

Happy Self Love Saturday!

Today I want to give you an obvious and simple reminder (sometimes we need to be reminded about the simple things), and that’s to always bet on yourself! My Self Love Journey has given so much confidence in myself and it has helped me to continually bet on myself for any and everything I want and do in my life! If I don’t believe in myself than why should anyone else? I have to be a confident member of my own team in order to win, and so do you! So today’s video is a reminder to ALWAYS BET ON YOURSELF!

Happy Self Love Saturday

(New Video Post) Fitness & Health [30 min Fitness Challenge] #SelfloveSaturday

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Fitness and health are a very important part of your self love journey. Once you get your mind right you’ll want to get your body right too! Today I’m speaking with the super amazing body builder Nkechi @Keke1972 and a little bit about her journey with fitness and self love. Nkechi spoke with me about the importance of making time for our health and out of our 24 hour day WE MUST find 30 minutes to an hour for our fitness! She gave us all a month long 30 minute fitness challenge that will challenge you but also help to start you on the right track with your fitness journey in a smart and simple way. Give it a try and let me know how it goes, I’ll be doing it too! Check out the video below to hear more of her story. Enjoy!

Happy Self Love Saturday!

The Challenge:
20 jumping jacks x 3
15 star jumps
10 push ups
40 mountain climbers
15 lunges x 3
10 sit ups x3
(repeat until 30 minutes is complete)

(New Video Post) “Embracing Uncertainty” #SelfLove

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Happy Self Love Saturday! 

This Self Love Saturday video is inspired by Eckhart Tolle. I recently watched an interview he did with Oprah on “Super Soul Sunday” and he spoke about embracing the unknown and the uncertainty of life. He says that “Fear is no longer a dominant factor in what you do when you are comfortable with uncertainty”. Life is supposed to be an adventure, if we knew everything that was going to happen there would be no room to grow.  “Embracing Uncertainty” has been a constant theme and lesson for my year that I’m still very much learning and trying my best to accept that I don’t always know what the end result is going to look like but that shouldn’t stop me from living and going after my dreams. Along with uncertainty I have to embrace failure and realize that there is always a lesson to be learned in everything we do. I’m sure some of you can relate to this idea and how difficult it is to let go, but it’s important that we try, just be in the moment and let life take us where it wants us to go, it’s an adventure for a reason. Check out this video below on my thoughts on for “embracing uncertainty”.

Happy Self Love Saturday xo

(New Video Post) “Trust The Journey & Let Your Intuition Guide You” #SelfLove

Hey guys, Happy Self Love Saturday! 

Today I want to talk with you about trusting your journey and letting your intuition guide you. One of my favorite things to do is reflect on my journey either by myself or with my mom since she’s been with me through all of it. We love to talk about all of the people we’ve met, good and bad and the places we’ve traveled to, the risks we’ve taken and so much more. We always point out that no matter how a situation or opportunity turned out it lead us to the next step, and whether it was a lesson learned or gaining some kind of achievement to add to the resume it all did something and it was all for a reason. It took me a very long time before I realized how important every single piece of the journey was and that no matter how fast or slow my life seemed to be moving that I need to experience everything that I had gone through to get me to this place in my life and to prepare me for what is to come. Trusting the journey is so important, learning to let go and just enjoy it is a lot easier said than done but when you do, you see why you had to.

Along with learning to trust my journey, I had to learn to listen to my intuition a lot more and let it be my guiding voice. When you listen to your intuition you realize it has your back! There’s a reason why it keeps talking to you in the back of your mind or pricks you in your stomach until you respond, it’s telling and showing you something before you realize it! I have many situations from when I was younger that my intuition was trying to give me a message and I just ignored it for whatever reason and looking back on it now I wish I didn’t because I probably could’ve avoided a lot of messy situations. Now I listen to my intuition loud and clear, if it doesn’t feel right I don’t do it! And if it feels right and genuine to me than I fight for it! Your intuition is the real you talking, so listen to it carefully! Check out this video below of why I think Trusting Your Journey and Letting Your Intuition Guide You is very important for Self love! 

Happy Self Love Saturday!